Originally Posted by
worthyoflove 
When someone makes remarks to another human being like that, it is not kind or loving, especially to a child.
lol... No offense, but I'm laughing over here. A child? She is 12 and just got her period, thats not a 3 year old that isn't allowed nap time at daycare-- this is a young lady.
I don't think NA has anything at all to do with this-- other than pointing out your own co-dependancy issues... ie; wanting to overcompensate/protect/shelter/ your daughter from dealing with reality/life.
The world is not going to be cute and rosey when she grows up. Coaches/teachers etc. are stronger with kids, because they HAVE to make them tow the line. Now if all of us parents took that attitude, we might have a more responsible/respectful upcomming generation on our hands.
So, no offense, but I truely think you are overeacting and judgeing this person, because of your own issues.
Let your daughter suck it up-- and step aside so she can grow as a young lady.