I'm not sure his response was because he's an addict. does sound like a coach role to me as well. I also would mention that my daughter just started as well and can be pretty whiny when she has her periods. All the women on here would probably agree that they are more emotional during that time of the month and at our daugthers ages it can be over-exagerrated since they are new to it. BUT the bottom line is if you want to choose another instructor then by all means do. just dont expect her to never have these types of conversations with someone else whether they are in recovery or not.