Originally Posted by
worthyoflove 
When someone makes remarks to another human being like that, it is not kind or loving, especially to a child. .
Worthy,
I promise I'm not trying to be difficult here, but if you feel the above way then you have already answered your own question.
You obviously don't like the way he spoke to your child. It is your right as her parent to pick who her music instructor should be. It doesn't matter if they are in NA, AA or in a local soccer league.
Maybe the real questions for yourself should be:
why are you having such trouble making this decision?
why are you looking for validation from the people on the board?
I'm sure you make good thoughtful decisions regarding your daughter all the time and this one is no different.
good luck
