Hello. Thanks for replying. I did find meetings around me! This whole disease concept is encompassing, because not only am I a recovering addict, but also an ACOA, and a Co-dependent. I do look forward to support. I do need to react better to my husbands antics, or to not react at all. The ritalin makes him very hypersensitive, and even when I back away and refrain from talking to him, he takes this personally too...so, when I try to protect myself, I lose, and when I defend myself, I lose(in a sense). I want to have strong boundaries. Sometimes I feel like I will never get there.
Thanks.....I will be going to a meeting.