Amen, sister.
I try to let those children play with the other bad kids, and get on with my life as much as possible.
((( trying2fly )))
Try to let their childish behavior mean less and less to you, like laundry flapping on a line far away. Your life is your life...can you see the silliness and sadness of your mom's antics? Flouncing around de-friending you on Facebook, bet that'll teach you
Hoping that as time passes you'll find yourself caring less and less about what they do or say. No contact helps too.