sober for 2 months, did relapse for 4 days a couple weeks out of rehab, but got back on the wagon right away. I still go to some meetings, but have stopped going to the one that I used to consider my home meeting where my "friends" go. and I go to aftercare one night a week and see a relapse prevention counselor once a week, which I seem to get the most out of.
You are right about the resentment thing, I definetely put personalities before principles and have become jaded with AA because of that. Probably just my history with these certain people/group, they are either 1) doing tough love, or 2) they have had enough. Either way, I need to move away from that, because it hurts too much and then I will drink. Its hard not to have expectations of people, but I won't get hurt if I don't.