Marion you have gotten some good advice, your sobriety lays in your hands, only you can do what you need to do to stay sober.
positively4st welcome to SR, you say:
I'm again leaving my problems, moving to Wva this coming month for kind, thoughtful people to hopefully lean on and pull me from the excess.
I know a lot of folks who moved thinking they were leaving thier problems behind, the problem with that was no matter where they moved they were still there! I can tell you where to find rooms full of "kind, thoughtful people to hopefully lean on and pull me from the excess.". Check out NA & AA Meetings. The rooms are full of people who have found a solution for thier problems and part of that solution they have found is helping other find the same solution they found.