I'm twice married and twice divorced. Hubby #1 divorced me, and rightfully so because I was a flaming alcoholic/addict.
Divorce #2 was initiated by me because I had finally found recovery from my own alcoholism/addictions, and hubby #2 was still active in his.
God doesn't love me any less.
What I see as true failure is staying in a marriage with an addict/alcoholic for years and years, and allowing children to grow up in that environment. That's how the cycle perpetuates far too often