Thanks gns!!
I also think a lot about LTD on forgiveness and anvilhead on boundaries... when you remember the bad things, and know you wouldn't put up with that... all the rest of what they do, blah blah is irrelevant...
You are right, I recall when I myself have hurt people, the one I have hurt most is myself, living a life much lower than what I can be... if we are all together in the end, hurting others is nothing compared as to how you hurt yourself with thoughts and actions...
Thanks for your post!! I was feeling really down but today I feel better