justice
TC, I don't know if this will help you, but I was able to let go my need for justice when I realized what my ex owes he owes to "God/the universe" and what I am owed I am owed by "God/the universe". He doesn't owe me per se. When I look at it that way - The universe/God has given me so much more over the last year then he has gotten. I was really bitter about the money he took from me - but I have gotten raises etc and he has not so God gave me my money back!
I still don't get the forgiveness stuff though - I am trying LaTeeDa, but am just not getting it yet