Ward drinks to the point of being stupid most nights and then he falls asleep. Sometimes I think it is sad, sometimes it annoyes me, sometimes I feel lonely and sometimes I get down right pissed. Once after a burned pizza and a broken coffee table I told him "I may not be leaving today but I will not live this way forever" The cards were on the table and the only thing that changed was me.
I don't have any kids at home that it is affecting and there haven't been anymore fire scares or broken funiture so here I am. He has had one DUI. Another one would probably put me in action mode. But for now I just keep myself busy.
If there is something I wan't to do, I do it. I join, I read, I come here, I work out. In fact I am going to Fla alone in July. That is me detaching. And I am a pretty happy camper.
Hugs,
JT