We have spoken a lot in the past queenteree, hon I wish you had PMed me sooner. I was diagnosed as early final stage, but I was no where near what you describe. I will tell you this, I know people who have been there in the final days of an alcoholics life, descriptions will serve no purpose here.
queenteree for the love of your children and the preservation of the good memories you have of him, let the hospital/police handle getting him into an institution.
PM me if you want to..........PLEASE!