Um... he "loves" you, but he doesn't want your kids around??
What kind of "love" is that... to want a woman to cater to his every need, and ask her to ditch her kids? Who is unwilling to relocate or even compromise on the location issue? Who apparently "loves" you if it's all on his terms?
I would not accept any man who didn't "love" me by wholeheartedly embracing my children as much as myself, when considering a permanent relationship.
How are your kids going to feel, if you vote for him instead of them? Because that's the choice he gave you.
CLMI