((Weasel)))
What a night! I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this and I know how you feel - horrible night and then, the next day, they want to pretend nothing happened.
I found that, when I started my own recovery, my H did anything he could to distract me. He wanted me back to worrying about him and his problems. He wanted me back under his control. He pointed out all of the problems with me, he threatened to find somebody else, on and on. He was trying to suck me back in.
After a while, as I got better, he saw that wasn't going to work and starting looking at the situation in a different way. It wasn't any fun but I refused to go backwards. I had found too much hope for myself and I was taking this journey - with him or without him.
Keep hanging in there. It will get better - I promise. We'll figure it out together.
L