CAAW,
Dear, to choose daycare that is farther away from the house because it is safer and then allowing an ACTIVE ALCOHOLIC to drive the children there and home is insane.
This is what living with an addict does to our minds.
The counselor can help you get your head straight. But trust me....your AH is going to pull out all the stops to get you to stop the counseling.
All I can say is that your children are in danger and for them you should keep going for help, NO MATTER WHAT.
He hit you with a pillow. My gut tells me that if you do not live apart from that man, he is going to hit you with something much much firmer.
Please don't disappear into this man's sickness.
Love, Bluejay