Dude, I definitely remember you from your avatar!
Ahhh, recovery romance. Brings a couple thoughts to mind:
1. This ain't a hotbed of health.
2. The odds are pretty good you'll meet someone, and the goods are odd.
But.....I met my fiancee here, we're both in recovery, we have a relationship that works
if we work on it. I didn't come here looking for a date, it just worked out that way. And like smacked said, I can't go around placing blame on someone else for my recovery and general state of mind. That's an inside job, it's up to me to keep it in check.