Rose, I understand your passion, and see why you say what you say. Please understand though, not everyone is on the same part of this path as you. It seems at one time you were where others stood, and asking them, or us to be where you are is not fair without direction and support. If I am driving to a destination and was told to just get there with no directions, well I would have a hard time. If my car ran out of gas; energy and was told to just get there, again I would have an even harder time. Not everyone is in the position to just do what you did. As much as some of us envy the position you are in now, it will take time and to get there. The only way we will get to our own happiness is by our own work.