Old 08-16-2009, 09:29 PM
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Crazy4Him
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Are you prepared for this alcoholic when he gets comfortable with you? Because we all know that our alcoholics Jekyll never came out right away. They made sure that we got good and settled first.

I don't know, I just feel like you have made so much progress. Why take the risk of becoming emotionally involved (in any way) with another active alcoholic? Do you think you might be projecting the hopes you had with your ex onto him? I don't know, definitely not trying to take your inventory I just feel like I KNOW you, like we're friends and this whole thing kinda rubs in all the wrong ways.

You have an enormous heart TC and the fact that I can tell this through a computer screen means you must be about ten times more loving in person. It is a great quality to have but it can also get you into trouble!

Have you spoken to your therapist about this? Keep us posted
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