Pelican

TC999,

I'm concerned about you being this man's sponsor. Red flags are going off in my head. :codiepolice

IMHO< This man isn't at his bottom. He is still in denial. He is now playing the victim to illicit sympathy from you. You as his friend (codie alert) want to help him, but aren't you trying to rescue him from his guilt and shame? Traditionally, sponsors are the same sex as the sponsee.??

What happens if he can't go 30 days without a drink? Do you listen to him whine about how hard it is?

Please tell me that I've got this wrong and that in your excitement you left out information.