Read blessed's post AGAIN.....I could have wrote the same exact post almost word for word....she is SO right on the money...
It really is crazymaking.
A year ago I was counting beer cans, digging through the trash looking for receipts, obscessing over whether he had been drinking and driving, and getting mad when he would hang out with the neighbor having a few.
I did this kind of stuff too - and had a big knot in my stomach 24/7! These days that knot is gone and I'm living MY life without the "crazymaking" that comes with an alcoholic.
You wouldn't believe the difference....