hi Daisylady!
like outtolunch said..
it sounds to me also..like you are trying to control him, monitor him..etc.
All it will lead you to , is where you are right now..
TOTALLY FED UP AND FRUSTRATED.
REMEMBER..".you cant control it!"
but you can control YOU..and choices for you and your baby.
as for king baby..
he has to make his own choices..or bed..and then sleep in it.
again..
focus on YOU.