I think you handled the whole thing beautifully. At least you have been blessed with a babysitter who thinks a lot of you and the children and is willing to step in when a crisis looms. You are safe, the kids are safe, and your daughter is safe at least for tonight in jail. All is calm. Enjoy the night and what you can of the day tomorrow - you are in Ohio, right? I'm in Illinois. First storms tomorrow afternoon and then near 100 degree heat all weekend so get outside tomorrow if you can and relax. :ghug3