You know we live in an alternate universe than others when a crisis occurs in our immediate circle and we respond with shutting off our phones and grabbing the first available bubble bath.
Let the addicts run in circles and point their fingers at each other. We have better fish to fry. You stay the course your on. No need to help anyone with their own consequences or listen to an addict use this as an opportunity to say "see, I'm not as messed up as she is." I say phooey to all that!
Good for you for securing the kiddos and giving yourself some time to decompress. You'll be better for it and so will they.
Things will be brighter tomorrow!!
Alice