Thx bud.
As for this one:
"normal drinkers" don't wonder if they are alcoholics, as in if you are wondering if you have a problem with alcohol you usually do
I also saw it that way, and was sure I was an alcoholic just hibernating, until I spoke to the treatment people for DUI treatment, and was told by them that abusive behavior for a period of time does not necessarily mean alcoholism and can be brought under control. Which I was very happy about. One disease less to worry about taking my life, you know?