Originally Posted by
TakingCharge999 
hi sclarke! I saw a lot of "he he he" in your last post... I wanted to challenge you to write another post starting with "I I I" "me me me"!
You know, we are worth so much more, we need to give ourselves more grace!!!!
Right on!
IMHO, you are letting the Alcoholic take up space in your head, rent free.
You spend so much time and energy supposing this....assuming that....wondering this.....imagining that......(
his money,
his new gf,
his kids,
her kids,
his bills, ect) and you keep trying to apply logic and reason to everything concerning
him.
Let me tell you, as a recovering alcoholic, the only logical and reasonable thing he has done is inhale and exhale. And that was only because of a power greater than himself.
Please, please, please stop the stinking thinking each time it starts. Focus your time and energy on something you can control: yourself. Take care of yourself one day at a time, one moment at a time!