Until he decides to do it for HIM and that his life is better without the drug, he won't stop. It is heartbreaking to realize that someone has such a problem or is making such choices that don't put us first. Again... my husband said, over and over and over..."Give me another chance. I'll do anything" ... the words were easy to say... but the actions never happened. He wasn't willing, ready, able to give up the drug and or engage in life. You can't have a relationship with someone who isn't truly there.
Take care of you!!! HUGS