I have a good freind that I thought had a drinking problem. They say we should carry the message to the still suffering alcoholics the way I do that is by example. I never talk to anyone about their drinking or drugging unlesss Im asked to. My freind asked me few years back while he was helping me and hadnt had a drink in a day or so Howed you do it how do you not drink whats your trick, I shared my esh with him we went to an AA meeting that night and although I went back out he is still sober today. I felt and he has said if I had confronted him about his problem he probally would'nt be sober today. I'm not a save the world kind of guy I'll help anyone but I'm not a recruter.