Heres' a quote from outtolunch from an earlier thread you posted about going to see this horrible man in prison:
Is this the same guy who stole money and your car?
Is this the same guy that you got a restraining order on?
Is this the same guy who told you lies to cover up lies?
Is this the same guy you have been sending money, food and boots to?
Is this the same guy who has an ex with another child he he not supporting who also had/ has some sort of relationship with a girl he met in rehab?
And now he's back in jail and probably feeling a little blue cause he's not the kind of guy who does well facing the consequeunces of his choices and behavior.
Relapse is a part of addiction, not recovery. He's not done with drugs, yet.
Honestly, my dear, he is doing you a favor by taking up with this girl, because it keeps him from preying on you any more. Please stop allowing and/or seeking out any contact in any from from him or any of his sick little posse. Don't talk to his parents, his girls, his exs, his children, friends, family, doctor, counselor, sponsor, etc. Talking to his associates is just another way for you to prolong your pain. Give yourself a break and check out an alanon/codanon/naranon meeting.
Love,
KJ