Originally Posted by
laurie6781 
Okay, if you say so. How about you take a nice 8 1/2 x 11 sheet of paper, draw a line down the middle of it the long way and on one side put what you think you love about her, and on the other side put what you absolutely dislike about her? Then look at both sides very very carefully.Love and hugs,
This is a must do for everyone laurie, thanks for posting. I did this and I was shocked to see that the balance was off base to what my thinking had been. The side that contained the dislike attributes/character was 47, and the like/love was 9. I then tried to rationalize what was due to the alcohol consumption, but told myself this is what it is..... black and white, down on paper. It helped quite a bit. I then made a list of what I will accept in a man (not unrealistic) and posted it on the back of my bedroom door. For three weeks now I have been getting to 'know' someone who has all but two of what is on my list of what I will accept.
Do the list 5fingaz, you may see a different side to things.