Originally Posted by
mentallyexh 
I tried to talk about things with him, but it is like talking to a wall, with only accusations and anger.
I stopped talking to angry walls. I started working on me and enjoying my kids and NOT engaging in the drama. What I discovered was that the healthier I got, the angrier and sicker (even though he was not drinking) STBXAH got. It's the normal progression of things from what I understand.
Now at my house, all I have are happy walls, that room by room are getting painted in any damn color I choose!