It's heart breaking when what we think is a new beginning becomes just another lie... The addict in my life is my son, but I so know the heartbreaking disappointment when the promises becomes lies. I'm sorry dude, I truly am...but as we hear over and over, the truth is..we can't control it..we just don't have that power. I don't get the fact that the drug is more important than life to them either...I just don't get it. But it's not our place to 'get it' I suppose. If you have faith in a HP, I suggest praying for acceptance and strength to react and act as your HP would want you to in order to help your wife come into the light that is there for her. If only they could see it is within their grasp if only they would accept it. Unfortunately, only they can reach out for that...I will pray that your wife sees that and soon comes to give herself up to it..
God Bless...