Daisy, 5 weeks is still really early. My suggestion: Give him space to work his program, keep yourself focused on your program for now. If he is sincerely working recovery, things will get better in time. If he is going back into addiction, that will become obvious all too soon. Probably you should tell him what you that you are giving him space and working on your own recovery. Later on plan some together time, even if its coffee before the kids get up.