Please help me with this boundary
AH lost his license for 1 year and has a truck. He found a driver that will drive him to work for use of the truck without pay. (No buses that will take him to work that early). AH wants the driver to drive him home so he doesn't have to take the bus. I told AH that it will not come out of our funds and that he is to use his "lunch money". AH agreed.
Is this a good boundary. My problem is that I think that by taking the bus every day that would be the consequence to his drinking and maybe hiring the driver is getting in the way of that.
The other problem is, arguably it is his money so even if I refuse to allow the driver, he probably could still since we are married.