There were patients in my daughter's rehab that didn't have all the drama either. Their families were emotionally affected like the rest of us but spared all the craziness, and they didn't spread crazy either.
Those people were the ones I wanted to know more about. They had something I didn't and I wanted it, too -- calm. I finally found it and it's spreading in my home.
You have a lot to offer and I hope you'll share more often