Hi tyler. I know just how you feel - one of those damned if you do, damned if you don'ts. You should've been able to be honest, but that would have probably caused more problems than just saying yes. Maybe they won't spend as much time with you & your son as you think - and everything will work out well for all. It's a blessing to have an ex like that - I've seen so many disgusting situations where people just want to hurt each other & to hell with the child's feelings. Hope it all works out and you have a great day in spite of the annoying intrusion.