Just a gentle reminder: Be patient, try to relax , you can't change it anyway. You will only need to make it throw this storm( divorce process) a little longer. It will end. Its a process that must run it course. Sorry you are not aloud to race though it. Try to be glad you don't have the responsibility of controlling the legal system. :-)
The second half of your post was a good reminder for me.:-)
love tammy