I agree. Shut the dang phone off!!!! If he comes to the house call for police to come get him.
Ellima01, he does not grasp what he has done and how he has broken the trust between you. That is denial and is the lifeblood of his addiction. All he sees is an enabling situation that was giving him his cake and letting him eat it to. Of course he wants that back, and he's pulling out all the stops he can to get it.
Keep asking yourself why you would care for a man who has shown you so little love, care, and concern. Keep reminding yourself of what you found when you came home that fateful evening and who you had to physically take on to get them out of your home.
You are worthy of a healthy relationship and you will never have that until you get past this very difficult time so keep moving forward and keep him OUT!!
with love,
Alice