Same old Same old
I don't know if I posted this before but my exmil got remarried today. I was stressing about going wondering how the family will be with me and how exah would be to me. They wanted the baby there so I had to take her because he can't take her.
I just got back. I am actually really glad I went. Family was nice to me and it was ok.
They asked exh not to drink and he agreed. I was only going to stay an hour or so but I noticed exh's personality changing like it does when he drinks. I wanted to wait around to see what happened.
At first exh was all over baby..trying to be a good dad. Then I noticed he was going to the truck alot and also going to the restroom alot.
He was telling me that I didn't want to work on things and he was the only one trying. He was saying he wants us to try again. I said he needed to quit drinking and be faithful. 2 things I didn't think he could do. He was going on and on even in front of people. I knew he was drinking somewhere secret.
Then he got emotional with some family members and crying. Sure sign that he is drinking. His siblings just rolled their eyes and were frustrated because he promised he wasn't going to drink. They were not serving alcohol at the reception. Then he took off with SIL dad and then her sister followed. They walked a ways away and had this long conversation. After about 15 the dad came back and left exh sitting with the sister. Exh never came back. Dad of the year never even got to say goodbye to his daughter. I had enough of waiting on him after an hour and we left. I think the family understood. BIL said he found empty beer cans in the bathroom.
Same old crap new day. It did make me sad though hearing those words even though they were coming out of an intoxicated mouth. Its hard to be strong when you want to hear those words so much but know he is full of crap because he is drinking. I still love the guy.
He didn't even bother with his baby for the last hour we were there. He was more interested in talking to sil's sister.
I am glad I went though. Confirms he is still drinking to the point of sneaking it.
Nothing has changed.