Thank you everyone! I so agree about the no contact but I know he wont go for it. In fact I kind of hinted around at it and he was completely resistent and went on and on about how I know nothing about alkies and the program, and on and on. . . . .
Originally Posted by
bluejay6 
Time to stop taking each other's inventory. Time for you both to be attending meetings and working on yourselves.
Thanks for this! I didn't realize I was doing this. I guess I thought that it was good that we were being honest about behaviors that we have a problem. I even went as far as telling him that just because I might be bothered by something about him (and vice versa) it doesn't mean he is wrong, but it's my problem and I have to figure out of I can accept it or not (again, and vice versa).
I do need to go to meetings and am making a vow to stop making excuses and get off my behind and go! Thanks for the encouragement and confirming what I already knew (but was ignoring or denying)!
:ghug