Thank you all for your help.
I know in my heart of hearts that I need to give him the ultimatum of rehab or me leaving. But it hurts my heart to even think of leaving, though I know it may be my only choice.
I also know that it was not him saying those things me to yesterday, it was the drugs, or the need for the drugs.
He does say he wants to get clean, but i'm sure every addict does just to shut up their loved one.
I feel like I would benefit more from going to a one-on-one meeting with a counselor. Have any of you done that? Even if I am not ready to give him the ultimatum, I'm definitely ready to talk to someone about it.
Thanks again for your support