Your right of course still waters.. and funnily enough when he told me today that he had sacrificed so much for me and that i'd done nothing but treat him badly for it and that it was about time i made a few sacrifices of my own. I told him i was going to be making the biggest sacrifice of all becuase it was obvious to me, him and everyone that i was bad for him that i couldn't possibly help him to recover whilst with him, so my sacrifice to him was by graciously bowing out of his life and letting him get on with the act of recovery in peace. At the time i meant it in a sarcastic way but now, i'm thinking that it wasn't being sarcastic at all, it was just being extreemly truthful.