Laurie has a good idea in contacting the show Intervention or the parent one that Ray mentioned. I know in my H's rehab there was a guy there who is/was on intervention. They were paying for his way to be there. The show has not aired yet.
I also 100% agree with Laurie's rules. SOMETHING needs to be in place or things will fall right back into old patterns most likely. So sorry you're going through this Winnie