ANvil, I agree. I had such a thing once....I had so much freedom and acceptance given to me that I walked straight out!!!!! I gave him the freedom too and acceptance , and after 20 years of gentle safe mutually respectful love we got LAZY with the freedom and acceptance we gave each other mistook it for not giving a damn about the other aslong as they gave you an easy life - - there was no chaos, little passion, alot of feeling comfortable.
Walked out of that into coke hell.
Must need a lobotomy.