blue jay- I agree with you 100% . I hear callie talking above: she sounds like she is vertical again.
Callie - thank you for that. When I talked to my abf about reading on SR few weeks ago he told me i was pathetic - get a life , in the real world ( a ref to him in his prof, high power postition ). I had been reading yr posts for months, also defying my gut, because this guys professionalism must stand for something, and I am so marginal in my career/ earnings.
now No Contact. It is better away from mental abuse.