I totally agree that while living with "active" addicts, who just happen to be using drugs similar to my AS DOC, is not moving in a very good direction. This was my point to him.
As far as the addiction psychiatrist...I threw him a life line and he grabbed it. The psychiatrist told me that he would know if I was wasting my time and money to help my son, if indeed he was not ready. I have already come to the conclusion in my own mind that he is not ready, based on what I see. But like ex D-boy said, maybe it will help him understand a lot. If this proves to be a waste, I am throwing the towel in. I have already Marchman Acted him.
Thank you all for sharing...it truly helps.