Thanks all,
Piglet: no such thing as a stupid question...the problem is that all the 12-step things seem to be heavily God-based, at least God-based enough to really turn M off.
Katie: Thanks, we did look into those on-line, and unfortunately the closet meeting for any of them is 3 hours away.
Poppy: Did you use any sort of support "program", or have you been taking care of yourself? I'm asking because sometimes you get these dire warnings on other boards that anyone who doesn't "work a program" is doomed to failure.
Thanks for the help
Daisy