mle..
I've been just where you are. It can be a fight. They call them custody "fights" and "battles"...
anyhow. My ex AH had long since recovered through the church..I was sober, but was still considered
the "alcoholic..unstable parent"...
Someone shared with me.."We have ceased fighting anything and anyone..even
alcohol"...and I was really frightened, until I tried that experiment. And it worked
for me. I stayed out of "the fight"...I got calm, and got on my knees..and handed
everything..my son ..up. It was the hardest thing I ever had to do up to that point
in life. My son "came home" shortly thereafter. Just keep your wits about you, stay
sober. I'll pray every day for you, mle. My heart so goes out to you...
Take care dear.
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