Originally Posted by
jimhere 
Follow your heart. Who cares what they think?
About a year or so ago I was facing a decision that I feared would get talked about in the AA gossip circles. I had already inventoried it, prayed about it, and waited until some direction was indicated. I felt good in my heart. But, because I believe in taking these decisions through the steps, I sought counsel from other alcoholics. Part of my fear was based on what others would think or say or gossip, and I wanted some outside input.
The feedback I got was, "Let 'em talk. You're on the beam, Keith. If they're talking about you, they're probably leaving someone else alone."
Decisions made this way always turn out OK. Not always what I expect or want, but always OK.