Originally Posted by
liveweyerd 
Katie, since you are a fighter, the best thing that comes to my mind is to pick your battles???????
Yes, but these holidays truly ARE deal breakers to me. This is the second time around for us and I am just not going back in time and all that implies. Believe me, I was gentle compared to what I *REALLY* wanted to say. I merely told him we have an *official* problem. Like he cares. I dunno. He is going to have to go anyway. Was always a huge trigger and continues to be. I think I'll tell him to come on family/friends night which is Thursday. If he cares, he will. If he doesn't, he doesn't. Thanks
