Originally Posted by
suki44883 
If he causes you to drink (which he doesn't), why do you stay in a relationship with him? Sorry to be blunt, but, the idea is to avoid triggers.
Yes, idea is to avoid triggers, but I can't blame this on him, rather my reactions to him. If it's not him, it will be another him. Damn...if he'd do his part, I could do my part much easier and vice versa. And this goes beyond addicted people to any couple with problems. We all have buttons that get pushed. The idea is to know them and to avoid them at all costs.